Thank you all

thank you Pushpa for your reply. It's really difficult to recover...but try to join us at the earliest dear...
We really miss you..

nice to hear from u pushpa dear, waiting for u to join with us as fast as u could,

puspa eagerly waiting ur come back .Take care of ur health dear

Take your own time, grieving is a slow process and it takes time, and the time taken is different for different people. Even after more than 40 years, I still remember my father and I have not come out of it. In the same way, in a matter of seven years, I lost my mother and two sisters in the nineties. A little part of my heart always cries over the loss. But that is life. I always remind myself of the story of kisA gautami and the buddhA, about the mother who would not give up the dead child till she was asked to bring a few mustard seeds from a house where no death has ever occured.

Regards! - mOhana

Dear Pushpa, I know how hard it is. I lost my father in Dec 2009. One and half years gone, still every night when I go for sleep, my pillows become wet in his memories. Every morning when I get up, I go and stand in front of god and say good morning to them, my FIL & My father. It's really paining to realise that he is no more with us. But my little son keeps me occupied most of the time and when he is around, i forget the entire world (All good things & bad things). So you also try to find some other way to divert your mind, like meditation, Yoga or anything else, which you normally enjoyed before this incident.

Mahalakshmi

Pushpa you know one thing..I lost my mother in 2008 (when she is just nearing 58 years) and immediately after 6 months I lost my one and only brother (just 30 years old) think of the shock which hit me. I could not recover from the grievance till now da...but only through ikolam I'm just diverting my mind. You know one thing pushpa, here only in kolam I feel, my mother and my brother has not left me alone.....please try to divert your mind..dear...

I dont know what tragedy has happened to u. Anyway this is life and we have to take it as it is. Take your own time pushpa and come back we all miss you. Take care. God give you strength for all you want dear. Will pray for u

i'm happy to c ur reply. take care dear n come back soon.-suguna murugesan

Nice to see u push dear...pl do come and enjoy d kolams and comments....even if u don't take part in d commenting section its okay....but pl relax urself by coming here....

Hi Pushpa...nice to see your reply...take your own time as we know it is very very difficult to come out of the shock of losing our dear ones...but please do visit ikolam now and then and get relaxed dear....

Happy to see your name down pushpa.Take your own time and Take care of your health.We will be wait