Chinna kuyil Chitra
On seeing JKM Sir's topic ya ya ya--- it reminded me of the song ya ya ya yadhava... from the movie Devaragam sung by Chinna Kuyil Chitra. Now, we don't know when will she come back to the field. Though she may resume in the field, will she be able to perform the same way as before after the big loss (she lost her 8 years old Girl) in her family? Infact the incident happened here in Dubai only, when she came here for some stage performance on Vishu day. It happened just a day before Vishu. I was literally crying in my home after hearing the news, Is this the vishu kai neetam that God gave her for this Vishu? (Vishu kai neetam means - All the elder people in the family will give some gift / money to youngsters on Vishu day).
Let us all join together and pray to God to give her the strength to come back to her normal life.
dibbutn
Tue, 2011-07-26 21:35
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Yes Maha, my heart wept when I heard the news. It is truly very unfortunate and one of the worst thing that can happen to any mother. To give a baby after many years and to snatch it away. Sometimes God's intentions are so painful, unpredictable, unquestionable, and yet we cant but help asking him/her "WHY" which of course remains a mysterious question unanswered. I keep asking this question every day.
smahalakshmi
Tue, 2011-07-26 22:21
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U know pushpa, I have a habit but I don't know whether it is good or bad. Whenever I hear such news, i step into their shoes and feel a lot how will be their state of mind during such circumstances. This causes too much worries / sad feelings etc for me. For e.g. when I hear someone is dead, the moment i hear that band music and the crying sound of their family members (known as oppaari in tamil), immediately i start crying. Or if i see someone falling down, i will start thinking, oh my god, it may be painful for them. Will they be able to bear this pain or not? Sometimes I may end in crying for that. On seeing me in that state, people around me will say that I'm not a courageous person. She is not brave to face such situations and is a fearful person (bayandha goli). In some cases they will not let me know such seriuos instances also.
This Chitra's news caused so much of worries for me but I didn't show it off. I was keeping it with myself. Only 'time' can solve her problem, i think. My MIL use to say - uppum thanniyum ulla poga poga dhan, dhukkam koraiyum. As time passes by, hope she will be able to recover from this stage.
Mahalakshmi
umaraja
Wed, 2011-07-27 01:43
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maha dear this shows ur soft kind hearted nature which is very rare in d present world, even i felt for this news and also heard that nandana(chithras kid) was a spastic child ,she wouldnt have been even able to express that she is drained in d pool, mmm v.sad at times we cant understand gods decision????, it is a grt loss for a mother, it happend so in my relatives case also, just read this
http://www.ikolam.com/node/21117
smahalakshmi
Wed, 2011-07-27 03:25
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Uma, now I remember you saying that day about that child. Really felt very sad on hearing this.
Mahalakshmi
ammuchandhini
Wed, 2011-07-27 01:48
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Oh this is d most terrible thing a mother can face....my heart cried out for her when i heard d news....why shd god give a child after so many years and snatch it after so many yrs....sometimes i feel god is behaving so rude to d most lovable people....chitra's face is always a smiling one...will we able to see that again.....only time will tell....
smahalakshmi
Wed, 2011-07-27 03:27
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Yes Rani, Chitra was blessed with a kid after 15 years of married life, that too challenged one. The girl was 8 years old when she died. Eagerly awaiting Chitra's re-entry.
Mahalakshmi
alameluranganath
Wed, 2011-07-27 04:40
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mahalakshmi she has already sung in M G Sreekumar's music composing a film song. I think she is a very bold lady and she will come back sooon. How can we loose her.
smahalakshmi
Wed, 2011-07-27 20:19
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Oh Really!!! That's a good sign. Thanks Priya for the info and let us wait for her re-entry.
Mahalakshmi
dibbutn
Wed, 2011-07-27 23:03
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Maha, I too feel the same feelings like u when i see something like this. Sometimes my people are scared for me. Small things make me upset which would pass off as a daily thing for some other person. I perfectly understand what you feel. Recently, here in Bangalore, an 18-month-old child (not sure of age though) fell from her mother's hand from a building and died when the mother was feeding the child trying to make the child eat by showing passersby. I was thinking of the trauma the mother must be feeling, the guilt of losing the child, blaming herself for it and all. Hope her people take good care of the mother. I just cant imagine such a thing.
smahalakshmi
Wed, 2011-07-27 23:12
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Oh no. Pushpa, when I read this, something disturbs me a lot. Poor lady.
Mahalakshmi
dibbutn
Wed, 2011-07-27 23:17
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Sorry dear, I didnt mean to upset you but even though I am not a mother, my motherly instinct stirred a feeling within me when I read this, my thoughts were god I only hope someone is always there with the mother. I hope no one blames her cos she blames herself more than anyone else.
smahalakshmi
Fri, 2011-07-29 01:13
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Pushpa dear, may god bless you soon with an adorable baby. May be your father will be reborn in this earth soon.
Mahalakshmi
ammuchandhini
Fri, 2011-07-29 01:36
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I hope no one blames her cos she blames hersellf more than anyone...very true push...this reminds me of something...when ammu was studying her 10th...it was her school tests going on and u know these teens how worried they r if one pimple sprouts out of their cheek...she was pestering me to do something to get rid of those...i had read in a book that if we apply garlic pimples will go away and what i did u know...mashed so many pods of garlic and applied on her cheeks and we went to bed...she was saying ayyo ma this is burning...i shouted at her u wanted a remedy na...so u have to tolerate it...and u know what i saw at 3am in d morning as she was getting ready to study for her tests....her full cheeks were burnt like anything...omg...my heart skipped a beat and i started crying blaming her u shd've wiped it if u felt so untolerable...and here i was blaming myself to d core what did i do to my daughter....then we got treatment and she got her original skin.....i just remember this .....and just wanted to share with u all...
Dr.Rekha Shetty
Fri, 2011-07-29 21:16
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Push my Ragavendra swami will definitely bless u with lovely baby dear .Keep trust in god and keep cool and have positive attitude. We all pray to fulfill ur wish dear .Ammu like ur’s even i have many incidents which made me blame myself like the one i have discussed recently (regarding the admission of my daughter).We r human being it is difficult to control but better to overcome with our positive attitude at the earliest .